The Language of Clients: It’s Different From Yours

Executive summary:

  • Advisors may focus on performance, fund ratings, and metrics like beta – but investors do not
  • Investors want to understand if their investments will help them reach their financial goals
  • Adopting investor language – talking about their goals, needs, and circumstances – can help advisors better understand their clients, and their clients better understand how and why they are invested

My father is 86 and the topic of financial markets and his investment accounts invariably comes up at every family gathering. Mainly, he talks about how my mother and he have lived from their retirement accounts since they both retired more than 25 years ago.

I admit, my father is better versed in the financial markets than the average investor, given he spent most of his professional career working on Wall Street. But I’ve noticed that even he has become less and less focused, over time, on his portfolio’s performance during these dinner table conversations. Rather, he talks about his feelings, stories and anecdotes of memorable moments that his investment portfolio has helped fund over the years. For instance, when equity markets are up, he talks about the future trips they have planned, like the one they plan to take with their church friends, and how excited they are. When markets are choppy, he talks about how he and my mother would be tightening their financial belts and perhaps not taking that trip they had planned to visit family in Egypt, where they both grew up.

I’ve noticed over the years that in these family meal discussions, he rarely shares what his portfolio is invested in or the performance of his investments. He doesn’t mention the Morningstar rating or what decile of performance his portfolio falls into. In fact, when I ask him how his portfolio is allocated, or how it is weighted in U.S. vs. non-U.S. assets, what percentage he has in bonds, his answer is quite simple: As long as your mother and I can live our lives with dignity and comfort, and we have choices to dictate the terms of our lifestyle, that is what matters most to us. I am always struck by how devoid his answer is of data points, benchmark comparisons and account values. Instead, it is filled with values-based terms like dignity, choices and lifestyle. These heart-felt interactions have left me wondering: Is the language clients use to discuss their financial picture different from that of financial advisors’ language?