For a twist on this week’s column, I will share some stress management techniques I often teach to help mitigate the overwhelming feeling of “I can’t do this all!” and to find ways to enjoy the December rush.
In this article, Beverly Flaxington gives advice on how to navigate organizing events for staff and clients.
Where I teach, there is a program designed for people who get into management roles but have never been given the skills to manage effectively. It’s common across industries.
You might not be able to do all of what’s needed to bring together strong teams and help your employees succeed, but even if you focus on just doing one thing differently and better, it can help improve outcomes.
These steps should help you share what’s important to the team with your senior advisor so he recognizes your point of view, and help you uncover what’s meaningful to someone considering joining you, as well as allow your senior advisor to be open about his objectives.
Members of successful teams generally get along with each other. Bev Flaxington offers some insights on how to cement those relationships.
Questioning leads to closing. A number of the advisors I work with are pretty good at engaging, asking questions and caring about the answers. However, they are really uncomfortable with the close. I promised you I wouldn’t give you coaching on “closing,” so I won’t.
I often hear my clients talk about the struggles with the next generation and how hard it is to work with them. Here are some of my best tips for how to lead the next generation (or potentially any generation that needs a little boost).
There are only a couple of workable options. You can’t tell someone like this she isn’t listening or that you feel shut down when you speak with her. That will only lead to defensiveness.
It is more common that teammates really enjoy the people they work with and have one another’s backs, but they don’t particularly want to give up personal time to spend more with workmates.
Storytelling allows you to describe what you do, and whom you do it for, in a way that is transferrable and understandable.
Care about being a financial “doctor” and don't assume all is well because you have addressed the surface issue. Here are some ways to avoid delivering a poor bedside manner when clients need help.
It doesn’t take away from one’s success to share things that are troubling in order to deal with them differently and perhaps find another way. While you want to be careful, of course, about to whom you share your secrets or your inner feelings, you don’t want to bottle them up indefinitely.
Try to understand specifically where you are going off track. Many times these are behavioral disconnects. If you have a boss who is highly attuned to rules and quality and you are someone who doesn’t notice details as much, you might be failing in their eyes. First, start with seeking to understand.
This week I had the chance to run a half-day workshop helping seasoned, successful advisors learn techniques for emerging as strong leaders, so I’ll share some of the information here in this column.
Try a combination of things to get people energized. Often once people do engage, they find themselves enjoying it!
When feedback is done well, it can be the greatest gift you give to someone.
It is overly optimistic to think people will simply change if they don’t see and understand the hurtful nature of what they are doing.
When I run sessions on dealing with difficult people one of the things I consistently point out is the gift that difficult people give us: they are known and their behavior is repeatable and can be anticipated.
It’s hard to work daily with and for someone who clearly doesn’t like you or want you to succeed.
Whether the discussion is about training, coaching, or consulting on roles and responsibilities, the topic of behavioral style – that is, sameness and differences – often gets missed.
It’s taboo in many cultures to admit you might want to have a life outside of your work, so a lot of people keep it to themselves because they don’t want to be seen as weak, or uncommitted.
I love questions like this one – the chance to think creatively and brainstorm “what could be” without the stress of having to do something right now. I have some suggestions to start thinking about what you could do when you have more latitude and less financial responsibility.
In many situations, my clients will tell us they hear “crickets” when they ask for feedback. In large forums many people are simply uncomfortable bringing things up.
No coach is going to be able to work well with your team unless you are very clear about expected outcomes. What will success look like in working with the coach?
This week’s column is devoted to brushing up on what you know you need to do well — and making sure you are actually doing it!
I work on facilitation and teambuilding quite a bit with teams of all sizes, so I am always either coming up with my own new ideas for engaging options or scouring the market to learn what others are doing.
The person has to be open to listen, learn and see how their behavior is not serving them and why they need a new approach. They have to want to figure out how to change and they have to be desirous of trying something new.
If you want to get someone’s attention and influence their thinking to gain traction with your idea, you need to get into their shoes enough to present a case they can understand and relate to!
The most important thing when it comes to managing your time, priorities and life is to get your priorities straight in the first place. It can be helpful to think in categories: work, family, spiritual, health, charitable inclinations and so on.
A manager’s role is to build upon their employees’ strengths, help them see how they can improve in areas where they are already strong, and make shifts in areas that aren’t working as well for them.
When one is running their own business, it can be easy to try something, and if it works, then great; if it doesn’t, then you simply move on to the next thing.
How to overcome obstacles when your firm is growing too fast and bringing in too much business?
I just completed a coaching call with an advisor I have worked with for many years. In his honor, I will profile a bit of the journey we’ve had together to illustrate how every advisor (yes, every single one) can learn how to sell effectively and do so in a comfortable manner.
Is it possible to run a firm with someone you don’t like?
Now that our merger is taking place and we have a clear set of steps to take, six people who were not involved in the decision-making process are pushing back on everything.
I’ve been through several excellent management training courses and seminars during my 25+-year career serving the advisory profession. But I always walk away with the feeling that I’m too nice.
How can we ensure cultural fit when bringing on a junior advisor to help with succession planning?
Using time in all the best ways possible should be a lifelong goal and something you want to encourage your clients to think about too.
I cannot get away from the feeling of guilt that I am sacrificing time with my children to run this business.
This week’s column shares some ideas around the importance of a unique learning environment and gives you some insight for your professionals to improve their skills and reach higher levels of excellence.
“Sometimes I don’t even know why I am invited to the meeting, and even after it ends I don’t know why I was there!”
I want to hear from you whether it is wrong to believe that numbers matter most and not everyone should try to be a psychologist with their clients.
Here are seven ways to be great at sales for those who don’t consider themselves “salesy.”
I’m running a large firm, but one of my weaker members is my son.
As the year starts off in full force, I am already getting multiple requests to work with managers and help them develop their leadership skills.
I’m going to ask about a hot topic but also a touchy one: diversity.
What if I like running my practice the way we are right now?
I’ll share my top 10 areas of focus where I see advisors receive the highest gain for achieving success and potential ideas for you and your team this coming year.
Our support team – assistants, ops and general relationship-management support – does not share in the overall comp of the firm.
