How Do I Convince an Egoist to Care About Their Staff?

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Dear Bev,

We are experiencing an exceptionally high rate of turnover at our firm. We have 29 roles but right now we have only 21 people here, three of whom have been with us for less than six months. The eight “missing” people have all walked out over the last 18 months for a variety of reasons. Two relocated, but six cited the working conditions and said the culture was untenable for them.

I am in a senior-level role here (although not an owner or senior advisor) and I have been with the firm for seven years. We have four partners who are extremely difficult people to get along with. They are all very ego-centric and refuse to listen to feedback or ideas. If you talk to them about something they will tell you directly, “Whatever you are about to say, I’ve heard it before.” To be blunt, they are all very rude. On top of that, they cannot stand each other. They are constantly bickering and backbiting, and I can’t think of a meeting I have been in for the last seven years where one of them didn’t walk out annoyed at what another one said.

Why do I stay? I get paid very, very well for a job I love. While I am in a senior role, I don’t have to interact with the partners very much except to give updates because with my 15 years of prior experience they trust me to know what I am doing. Why am I writing? I see the destruction their behavior wreaks on the firm overall and I am very concerned about the amount of extra work many of my team members are forced to take on. On a percentage basis we are missing 30 percent of our necessary staff and we have newer team members that require oversight and training.